Monday, February 04, 2008

NTD #4: I LOVE HEAT (unedited)

I have to say that one thing I love about my New York apartment is the amount of heat that gets pumped out of its steam radiators. I am lucky to have three old fashioned radiators, even though one of them is 4" wide, another incessantly hisses and the other sounds like the milk frother on an espresso machine. Fortunately, I only need to keep one of them on for most of the winter to keep my apartment snug and cozy. Also, I can not complain- heat is included in my rent. After spending that long frigid winter in Japan, I have come to appreciate and LOVE heated spaces.

As an architect, I was especially offended (and often ranted) that Japanese homes are not insulated against the cold winters or the hot, humid summers. I mean, seriously- when you see your breath inside your apartment, is that an acceptable way of life?!? Is it humane to walk into a stuffy, hot, burning oven after being at work in a non-air conditioned office all day? At least I had AC during the summer, but the winter was BRUTAL. I shuffled around my apartment in a coat, hat, and thick-soled slippers that kept my feet off of the freezing floor. I usually had several self-sticking heat patches on my body and in my socks at any time. My olive oil was always solidly congealed and all utensils and plates had to be rinsed under hot water before they could be used so that they didn't instantly cool the food that came into contact with them. I huddled inside my living room under the kotatsu (coffee table with a built-in heater underneath to heat your legs) and slid the fusuma (sliding doors) closed to conserve the little heat which didn't radiate out through the flimsy thin walls. And I avoided the icy little toilet room as much as I could possibly stand (oh the horrors of squatting above a "long-drop" non-flushing toilet!).

Actually, since my family is Chinese and um, frugal, (we were not allowed to turn on the heat unless we absolutely had to in order to "conserve" heat- you know, so we didn't have an expensive energy bill) I should have been somewhat prepared for the bitter surprise of non-insulated Japanese homes. But California winters were nothing compared to New York or Japan, so I had no idea what I was in for. I had been spoiled by my warm but tiny New York hallway/apartment.

Typical of most westerners, I was accustomed to central heat so that I could walk around comfortably in a t-shirt, even in winter. When I explained this to my Japanese friends and coworkers, they thought this type of heating was extremely wasteful- "You mean, all the rooms are heated?!? But you are only in one room at a time!" they would exclaim incredulously. They, on the other hand, use "direct contact" heating appliances such as kotatsu, carpet pads, heated toilet seats, and feet warmers to provide localized heating. Personally, I think these solutions are energy inefficient and discourage or restrict movement around the apartment.

The kotatsu, which was the only major form of heat that I had in my um, "traditional" (rickety) apartment is kind of like Japan's modern day version of the hearth. Since most Japanese still take off their shoes upon entering a home and sit on the floor or tatami, it is the place for families and friends to gather around to eat their meals, watch TV, do homework, and socialize. Originally, Japanese wore long robes so that when they settled under the warm kotatsu table and blanket, the heat would warm their legs and presumably travel up to keep the rest of the upper body warm. How this warmed their (exposed) arms and hands, I have no idea. Especially since few people wear kimono now, it seems like the whole idea should be revamped. In addition, most westerners are not used to sitting on the floor for extended periods of time, so having our legs stuck out directly in front of us and practically scalding our knees while our upper body froze just seemed completely crazy! I felt like I was leashed to my kotatsu as I spent all of my waking hours at home practically underneath the table. Of course, this contributed to my unsightly winter weight gain!

However, many Japanese socialize outside of the home to keep warm- they eat and drink at local izakaya (local bars with food) and take baths at the communal onsen. And women have no feeling in their legs anyway as they spent their school years wearing only mini-skirts and knee high socks (no tights allowed) during the winter, walking and biking their way (often times up to 40 minutes!!) to school. Throughout the whole year, it was only the foreigners I met who seemed to complain about the cold. Most of my female students just shrugged and said that this was the way of life- and reminded me of how comfortable their short skirts were during the other three seasons. For me, riding my cranky old bike through that stinging frigid air the few minutes to school or the train station was absolute torture.

Apparently the Japanese also believe they should be "in tune" with whatever season it is, maybe a type of Japanese stoicism from the ancient Shinto religion. When it is winter, you should be able to see, smell, feel winter. All of your senses should be aroused so that you can maintain a strong connection with nature, all year long. The idea of wearing a t-shirt in winter does not appeal because it is just not "supposed to be". I remember visiting Japan with my family one unseasonably warm October. My sister and I were walking around in flip flops, jeans, and tank tops (well, we are from California...) However, all the local Japanese were wearing boots, chunky wool sweaters, and fuzzy scarves & hats because that was what they were "supposed" to wear in the fall!

Well, the reason why I am writing about the heat-in-Japan-versus-America topic is because I was walking back to my apartment the other day and it was one of those super cold days that actually makes your head hurt and your nose is red and dripping without you realizing it because most of your exposed face is frostbittenly numb. Yeah, that cold. Anyway, after walking up the 6 flights to my apartment, I had somewhat warmed up and was looking forward to sinking into my chair and warming my hands by my lovely hissing radiator.

As I opened my door, I was confronted with a blast of warm, wet, stale air. I looked up at my walls and ceilings which were were completely covered with an indistinguishable yellow orange-y liquid that was running down my walls and condensing on the windows. (My first instinct was to quote Kramer from Seinfeld "It's like a sauna in here!!") I realized that the little nondescript white pipe that has quietly stood in the corner of my apartment was the culprit- there was a little steam nozzle at the top of the pipe that was angrily spewing and spitting out hot water, presumably from the boiler 7 flights down. The hot water, combined with the heat from the radiators, had created a steam shower my apartment.

***Sigh*** I would have to call my super and maybe he'd come by and fix it. I was lucky that none of my artwork or furniture was stained or damaged and I was relieved to see that the orange-y yellowy rusty liquid easily came off the walls with a little bit of wiping. I got out my Swiffer, and layered a few paper towels onto it to soak up the liquid, and then used the "fresh" smelling wipes to dutifully scrub off the rusty stains on the walls and ceiling which left my apartment smelling sickeningly like a moldy citrusy stale orange.

At that moment, I thought of how humorous the situation was. If someone looked into my window, they'd be like- "Oh, she's painting her walls and ceiling... wait, no... she's, mopping them..." and shake their head- another crazy person in New York. If someone from, say, Japan, asked me what I did that evening, I would've replied, "Oh, I swiffered my ceiling." (And confusion would have certainly ensued as there would be an awkward pause and a perplexed "Ehh?!?" "Nani? Su-wi-fu-ru-do?") I even took photos in order to effectively explain that a "Swiffer" is a type of "mop" (or "broom?") although "swiffering" technically isn't mopping or sweeping.



And I laughed, not only because of how ridiculous that sounded, but at the thought that certain words and products such as "Swiffer" or "Google" have effortlessly entered our vocabulary as normal, accepted words. They have even evolved into adjectives and verbs, and phrases such as "I googled him before I agreed to meet him on a blind date", are completely comprehensible. Hearing and using new words like this is fascinating for me- it's like a sociological experiment to gauge the changes in our daily lexicon as technology and trends evolve.

So, anyway, the whole incident made me think of how this would have NEVER happened in Japan and how lucky I am to have a warm, heated apartment... even if I have to occasionally mop my ceiling.

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Kidz!!

What can I say... but " c u t e ! ! ! "
Me & my niece...



The adorable Sean & Jack (we were so crafty we were cutting snowflakes!)



Congratulations to:
Giuliana + Damien on the birth of Anton, born on Dec. 26 (Boxing Day)


and Congratulations to:
Jeff + Jessica on the birth of Emmett George, born on Jan. 8 (Elvis Presley's Birthday!)

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Nothing to Declare: Posting #3


From my 3rd Nothing To Declare posting:

Finally, it’s January — the time when everyone gets back into their normal routine after the madness of the holiday season. I am exhausted from the buying and giving and feasting and drinking. It’s time to hole up and brace myself for my December credit card bill…

Even though we’re only a couple weeks into January, I’m sure many New Years resolutions have already been broken. I don’t even bother making them anymore because I know that I won’t be able to follow through. I can justify this because I live in one of the most amazing cities in the world — New York — where going to the gym can easily be replaced by going to a performance, a concert, a gallery opening, a sample sale or a new restaurant opening, any night of the week. I know that the minute I cut out (insert unhealthy food item here) from my diet, some specialty (said unhealthy food item) restaurant is going to open up down the street, serving it in ten different ways, 24 hours a day. I know that saving money is almost impossible; the tradeoff of opportunities vs. high rents and standard of living in this city comes at a price.

New York has become home again, as I have recently returned from living abroad in a peaceful rural village in Japan for a year. At first, I had a bit of an awkward transitional period readjusting to the hustle and bustle of a big city. Compared to my previous frantic, overworked, and precariously-balanced lifestyle in New York, my life in Miyazu-shi was simple and relaxing. I biked past mirrored rice paddies and serene fishing boats every day while teaching English at a couple of local high schools. But what I soon realized after I settled into life in my little Japanese apartment surrounded by a nation of Japanese people who mainly speak Japanese and mainly ate Japanese food, was that I severely missed the diversity and cultural mishmash of New York. The saying “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” definitely hit the spot for me. Even though I loved my time spent in Japan, I couldn’t wait to come back to New York and absorb, hear, taste everything I missed out on in the past year.

So, in the spirit of the New Year, I have composed my first and very amateur-ish, romanticized poem, an ode, if you will, ode to living in New York, the most wonderful place to live…


Oh, New York, how I love thy energy!
Welcome to Manhattan,
Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens and Staten,
Share your wares wherever you come from-
Bialies, kim chee, naan and dim sum!
Flavors, accents, colors, density,
None can match your lights, sounds, intensity!

Oh New York, how I love thy pace!
Bohemians, bankers, kids shooting hoops,
Cobblestones, bridges, neighborhood stoops!
The Post, The Times, coffee and out the door,
Hey, that building wasn’t there before!
Glass & concrete rising high ‘bove tenements’ grime.
How gracefully your skyline changes o’er time.

Oh, New York, how I love thy tourists!
Stopping, craning, studying their maps,
(Looking for Pastis or Bleeker Street, perhaps?)
They clog the turnstiles, delis and streets,
But happily fill our hotel beds & theater seats,
Spending, shopping, eating out
Going to places good ‘nuff to write home about!

Oh, New York, how I love thy subway!
Howe’er crowded, dirty, late thy steel cars screech ‘round the tracks,
Into your hard plastic seats we collapse.
Furtive glances into fellow riders’ bags,
Snippets, subtle peeps at your neighbor’s mags.
The trains run all day, even all night,
Few other cities can boast this might!

Oh, New York, how I love thy residents!
All (jay)walk thy streets, from the well clad & high heeled,
To the poor souls with their broken soles, on the church steps kneeled.
You were built by those who toiled with their blood, sweat, and tears,
You will incite hopes and dreams for many more years.
Only the strong can survive thy gritty streets,
And those who do reap thy joyous treats!

Thursday, January 03, 2008

NYE 2008

Happy New Year!! It's 2008 already?!?


Well, I'm completely over the huge NYE hype so we made a fantastic dinner at Suraj's and then went out afterwards...

Appetizers (by Laurie)
-sauteed garlic & mushroom crostini
-citrus shrimp & bell pepper crostini


Butternut squash & ginger soup with rosemary sprigs (by Paul)


Mediterranean Salad (by Suraj)

Herbed rib roast w/ garlic roasted potatoes, carrots, and parsnips (by Paul)

Chocolate caramel from Vosges (thanks Brian!!)
Chocolate covered strawberries from Godiva (by Beena)



...and plenty of champagne and wine to keep us flowing until the countdown.

Even though Beena showed up 3 hours (fashionably) late, she managed to catch up to the rest of us in no time.

We watched the countdown from Suraj's couch instead of paying $50 to go to some bar and drink cheap champagne but ended up sitting on the couch for another couple hours while we figured out a place to go... progressively getting more and more tipsy.

Finally ended up at the Hiro Ballroom and happily hung out there until last call...

vaguely remember a vodka shot (?) joined the rest of the bleary eyed stumbling passengers on the subway home...

Hope the rest of the year is full of all that happy mushy stuff!






Friday, December 28, 2007

San Francisco for Christmas

I was so looking forward to being back in sunny warm California for Christmas! Although most of the trip was cold and dreary (even colder than New York!) it was great to see family and friends, and to drive again!!

Paul and I spent some time at my old haunts in the Mission and SOMA. (Of course, we had to get Mexican food... mmmmmmmmmmmm.)




We spent a long time at one of my favorite stores, Paxton Gate and bought an air plant .



Thursday, December 20, 2007

Peking Duck House Banquet






A big Chinese feast, complete with Peking Duck was enjoyed in the company of good friends for Paul's 30-something birthday...

The banquet menu:
-Soup: Assorted sizzling rice soup

-4 appetizers:
fantail shrimp
chicken soon (??)
vegetable spring rolls
steamed dumplings

-7 Entrees:
2 Peking ducks
twin lobsters with ginger and scallions
house steak
prawns w/ chili sauce
chicken w/ orange flavor
mixed vegetables
homemade noodles (long life noodles!)

-Dessert: fried bananas w/ walnuts






Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Nothing To Declare

Not that I'm not busy enough, but I have also started writing for a webzine Nothing To Declare started by Jacki, a former coworker of mine. Ironically, I took over for her when she moved to Spain to teach and write, and then I moved to Japan to teach... They used to joke that desk was cursed... wonder how long my replacement lasted after me?!?

The mission statement: Nothing to Declare is a webzine started in November 2007 in Madrid, Spain. It is inspired by the unique experiences that occur when one is traveling or living away from one’s home. We look for original voices to bring these experiences to the masses.

My first and second postings.

Check them out!

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Speaking of crafty....



It's a cardboard safari- a laser-cut cardboard deer puzzle!

(Are antlers still in?)

Saturday, December 15, 2007

Crafty Christmas

I am no scrooge or grinch, but after coming back from Japan, I've realized that I don't "need" a lot of things to make me happy... Not that I didn't know that before, but living without a flushing toilet and heat and "diversity" really made me rethink my "needs" vs. "wants".

This past Christmas season was very difficult for me to digest- there was so much hoopla with all the shopping and gifting and receiving that I was almost disgusted, disappointed with what the holiday season really means. In New York, there were the standard holiday tourists (it seemed like there were so much more- maybe because foreigners can get so much for the low dollar) and the streets were clogged with shopping bags and chaotic frenzy.

My sense of "Christmas" came back when Vel suggested that a small group of us have a "Crafty Christmas" party- we all picked names secretly and each one of us had to "craft" a present for their chosen person. With all of our busy schedules, coming up with a creative present that we HAD to make ourselves seemed daunting... so we were given the option of buying something that the other person could make on their own. All of us impressively came through!

On a mid-December evening, we got together for the "Crafty Christmas Party". Even the dinner was crafty- Vel cooked my Corona Turkey, while the rest of us provided homemade appetizers, sides, and desserts. I was blown away by the awesome things that each person gave/made/created. It sounds corny, but with such good friends (and good food), it was probably one of the BEST times I have had in New York, possibly top 5 in my life!

Suraj hand-sewed this super cool handbag for Beena:


Beena's first several attempts at being crafty didn't work out, so she ended up getting me a white ceramic bowl and gift card to Color Me Mine so that we could be crafty together while painting our own pieces.


I made Vel a pair of gold earrings and since she had recently taken a bag/purse making class, I got her wooden purse handles for her to make a new bag.


Vel made probably my favorite present of all- a huggable sushi- shaped pillow for Wendy! The funny thing is Wendy's last name "Meguro" is similar to the "maguro" tuna that was on the sushi!


Wendy's sewing skills impressed us all with her colorful printed bag for Kim:


Kim made a really beautiful necklace for Giuli:


Despite being 8 1/2 months pregnant, Giuli made it out and etched a wine glass and mirror for Liza:


Liza's gift card for Suraj was solely for him to buy a crafty book from Barnes and Noble...


Funnily enough, Paul and Han got each other- Paul painstakingly made one of his awesome quirky "robot" drawings for robot-fan Han, with a hidden message inside:


Han's gift is forthcoming for Paul- since he's working on the new Trump highrise in Soho, he has promised to make a concrete bowl made out of the "Trump concrete"!! Can't wait to see it!!!

Saturday, December 01, 2007

New Museum!


The much hyped about New Museum finally opened in the Lower East Side on Dec. 1!! I was really excited because my firm who I had worked with before going to Japan had built it, and it was a really interesting project by SANAA architects. Actually, it's the first art museum ever constructed from the ground up in downtown Manhattan! There is a pretty cool time lapse video of the building construction on the New Museum's website.

Standing in the depths of the foundation pouring a couple years ago...



It's also about 3 blocks away from my apartment, in the "gritty" Lower East Side. When I first moved to New York, the area was still emerging as this hip, underground area, lots of dirty little bars and small boutiques and cafes (and pretty much the only neighborhood I could afford). Now it's inundated with bars, expensive restaurants and loud drunk kids on the weekends. I'm not opposed to change- but I guess it's weird to be part of such a drastically changing neighborhood. This building is supposed to symbolize this change- a new growth in the formerly rough and tumble neighborhood of kitchen supply stores and colorful residents.

Admission to the museum on opening day was free for like 24 hours, but you had to apply for tickets online beforehand so that they could stagger the guests on half hour intervals. Wendy, Sean, Midori, Ahmed, Paul and I went to brunch before at Cafe Charbon- the wonderful little French bistro across the street from my house (and downstairs from Wendy) and trooped over the museum as the architect/design geeks that we are. It was packed with other architect/design geeks, and not surprisingly, I ran into several other people I had gone to architecture school with in California!

From far away, it looks like a bunch of gray boxes stacked on top of each other, but when you get up close, you realize that there is a layer of sharp aluminum mesh screen covering the building. Seeing the neighborhood through the screen was pretty wild- like a super slick chain link fence.

One of the highlights was that the top floor, an event space with 270 degree views of downtown Manhattan, had been transformed into a pumping music, neon lighted, candy station for all (sponsored by Target). There were piles of white paper bags for guests to fill from the drawers overflowing with candy! I think the sugar was to fuel us for the grueling 7 stories we were walking up and down in the emergency stairs to all the galleries (the museum was so packed that there was a long wait for the elevators)!

* s * n * o * w *

They warned us, they told us to stay in...

They said we'd get a foot of snow overnight.

Stay off the roads! BEWARE!!!

I was excited to look out of Paul's window in the morning...


It barely snowed.

:(

Friday, November 30, 2007

Thanksgiving

This year, Thanksgiving was pretty mellow. I was busy with my new job and my side job, so the whole long weekend was devoted to working. :(

But Paul and I took a quick day trip away to Norwalk, Connecticut to visit his parents on turkey day. His twin sister, husband, and dogs were also joining us for the afternoon/evening meal which was great. Because Paul's mom had recently suffered a stroke, it was definitely a time of being thankful for good health, good family, and good food. Barb's speech and agility has been steadily improving and Jim is fantastic at taking care of her, when she needs it!

Paul's family members are such "foodies"- it was hilarious to watch all of them putter around the kitchen with all their utensils of choice and crafting these delicious dishes and suggestions & tips to each other. I am really comfortable with them and so excited to spend many more meals around their table!

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Corona- Queens, not the beer...

During my desperate unemployed days, I was answering ads for focus groups and random little things like that. Paul's friend, Nikki, knew I had just returned from teaching abroad and teaches English at a night school in Corona, Queens. She was going to be gone during Thanksgiving week, so she asked me back in October if I would sub for her adult night class on Tuesday before Thanksgiving at a local community center.

Of course, I said yes since it was a two hour gig that didn't seem too difficult, and it sounded like a fun way to pass an evening. Of course, I didn't think I would be working a full time job AND a part time job, so I was pretty screwed. Thankfully the class started at 6pm and I get off work at 5, so I had JUST enough time to get on the 7 train and ride the hour out to the primarily Hispanic neighborhood in Corona. Before then, I never really knew where Corona was (isn't that a beer?) and realized afterwards that even Simon and Garfunkel sang about Corona!
Goodbye to Rosie, the queen of Corona,
Seein' me and Julio down by the schoolyard


Armed with vague directions and a loose lesson plan, I walked down from the elevated train tracks and found myself standing between 41st Avenue and 41st Avenue, looking for the "grocery store with lots of signs and the stairs that go up next to it". I was confused enough about the two streets with the same name and couldn't figure out which direction to go when I felt a heavy wet drop on my head.

I realized that I had been standing under a huge tree full of burbling pigeons and the ground around me was pickled with white pigeon poop! Argh!!! what luck!! I finally saw a set of stairs wedged in between a McDonald's (that would've been a great landmark) and a deli with a bunch of signs written in English and Spanish (ahhh, the "grocery store"). I ran up the stairs as the 6:00 bells started ringing and burst into the little community room. There were about 6 or 7 people already there and they turned around to see me rush in, wiping bird poop out of my hair.

I broke the ice by telling them the bird poop story and we all got a good laugh. The community center was kind of run down and old but seemed adequate and safe. I set my bag down next to a table that looked like it was covered with wet mylar balloons or something and wrote my name on the whiteboard. Nobody really called me "Laurie" the whole night anyway- I was always referred to as "Teacher".

Anyway, although this was an adult English class, their level was not much different from my Japanese high school students. The class is pretty dry- we were teaching them the basics of English grammar, practicing the "subject, verb, object" pattern of sentence structure, but there were a few students who just blew me away. The class is offered free to the community for recent immigrants and I was amazed to see how motivated they were to be participating. They were wedged into those little desks with the built-in armrests and everyone was eager to call out answers. It looked like many people had just come from work- at one point, a dude walked in wearing a sombrero and a guitar slung over his shoulder. Couldn't figure out if he came in from a gig on the subway or a restaurant or something?!?

The director stopped the class about a half hour before the class was to end to announce that there was going to be a turkey raffle because it was Thanksgiving week! He pointed to the table of "mylar balloons" (oh, didn't I feel stupid- I have never seen a whole frozen turkey) and said that we were all going to get a chance to win one of the turkeys! He passed around these raffle tickets and insisted on giving me one but I resisted, feeling that I wasn't really a part of this community... Then the whole class got in and insisted that I join because I was the teacher and I had come all the way out there to teach their class. So I gave in and took a ticket. Then they had me pick the first winning ticket out of a bag. The trepidation and excitement on everyone's faces was contagious- I practiced my Spanish and read out the numbers... As I read out the last number, one of the guys shouted in and everyone cheered and clapped.

I passed the bag to him and told him to choose the next winner, and so it went for the next 4 turkeys. But, the crazy thing was, I WON one of them! I really felt bad because at that point, I was like, hey, it's just me, and these people all have families and aren't doing that well- I feel terrible. When they had picked all the winners, the director snapped a bunch of photos of us, and then steered us to the table of frozen turkeys. He handed the largest turkey to me, "the Teacher" but I put my foot down. If I was to join in this raffle, I would get the smallest turkey because I live alone and don't deserve a huge turkey. They conceded and so that's how I ended up carrying a 12 pound frozen turkey on the train home that night. Maybe what they say about getting pooped on is true... maybe it is good luck!!